SUZANNE BELL
Suzanne Bell, a friend and a colleague, has died. Her tough exterior and dry wit belied a person of deep sensitivities and concern for humanity. Suzanne was a dynamic personality, informed by a probing and sharp intelligence. She was an avid reader, extremely knowledgeable, and an astute judgmentalist. All the above made her a tremendous intellectual asset to the Hillsborough County Library system for over 30 years. During the years Suzanne worked in many different departments of the library, and plumbed the depths of every area in which she worked.
Despite an ongoing battle with Rheumatoid Arthritis, and its many complications, she continually gave her all to her job and her friends. Her fight for life was indefatigable.
The last time I saw Suzanne was on July 26. We met for lunch at J. Alexander's. She said she was going to order a cheeseburger with french fries. It wasn't on her diet, but she had been craving one, and was going to indulge herself. I'm glad she did. She looked healthier than she had in a long time. She had gained weight, and had good color. I spoke with her once after that luncheon. Now I'm left with a deep hole that a friend once filled, but lots of good memories.
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I remember our many luncheons at Algustos (where the owner loved her), Village Inn (where the waitress adored her), and J Alexanders (her favorite restaurant). Suzanne was there for my 30th birthday dinner. We had a girly dinner and some drinks to celebrate the quiet occasion.
Even though Suzanne and I had a falling out, I still have my fond memories of her. I wish her the peace she deserved. She was very kind when I lost my mother-in-law and understood my devastation. I am sad to hear that she was alone. Someone who cared for others should not be alone. I am sorry for those left behind who may hold regrets as well. Suzanne was a dear friend who will be missed.
Thank you Melissa. All you've said is true and wonderfully worded. I appreciate your feelings.
Melissa has given voice to my thoughts and feelings as well. I will always remember Suzanne with fondness and will miss her. Abby, thanks for writing such a beautiful and thoughtful post in memory of Suzanne. She was lucky to have you as friend through the end.
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